dynomiteabs asked:
I enjoy different types of trash talk. For the purposes of this answer, I’ll address the type of trash talker who wants to undermine my self confidence. People who do this proceed at their own peril. I have a healthy sense of self worth and an innate respect for others. I can lose that respect if others try and rip that away. I am not a girl who necessarily runs from dangers. If circumstances call for it, I can deal with a rat if I know it’s there.
People are not bowling pins who can be easily knocked over however I like. I’ll try and ‘win’ a match however I can. I have noticed when people sexfight, we sometimes try and give what we would ideally get. Left to my own devices, I give 98 percent pleasure, 2 percent mild to moderate discomfort (just enough to spice the pleasure) and when possible, some interspersed commentary.
Sometimes trash talkers want to try and humiliate me. Building our sexuality, if done correctly, can be exciting. If they do like I do, and can describe exactly what they will do, then deliver exactly that - THAT’S pretty amazing. If I know they enjoy humiliation, I can do that. I don’t like being humiliated though, and more than once have I bounced back from just having cum somewhat passively, almost submissively to end up dominating and making a trash talker stop their tirade by making them cum their everloving brains out. It’s like pushing a button with me. Push me too far and that’s my response.
So I guess my ideal isn’t an either-or. Rather, it’s a both. Making a trash talking 'opponent’ crawl on their belly for a chance to kiss one of my toes, punishing their psyche, ripping cumms and excitement from their being before giving them not only satiation, but a surfit of what they crave - is ideal. For the person who wanted to humiliate me, the ideal ending would be to grab them by their sweat soaked hair, lift their gaze to mine, ask “Had enough?”, have them unable to respond and let them drift off to slumber, completely and utterly done.