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He seems to enjoy it or at least, he understands. I don’t like denial in itself. To me, it’s only a means to an end. I enjoy the frequency that denial can help accomplish. This morning, after he gave me a couple of cumms, I couldn’t help but give him a really good one. If it was up to me, I’d have him cumming all the time, but realistically, I can wear him out. This is the down side of being an alpha. You may have the perfect mate for almost everything, including any one lovemaking session - but if appetites for frequency don’t match, or recovery times, you need to start finding ways to work things out.
Although I enjoy his orgasms immensely, I have taken, on ocassion, to denying that release to him. I continue to enjoy cumms as much as ever. I can do this. I’ve got that excess energy.
In a lot of ways, I hate denying those to him. It doesn’t feel natural. Naturally, I move towards cumms, for me and for my partner! Cumms are fun, giving and getting them!
The thing now is frequency. I need sex more frequently than he does. This seems to be the best way to keep his average libido closer to my higher than average one. It’s not a perfect solution but it’s practically the best one I can find right now.
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